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The
Epidemic of Busyness Among Christian Leaders
Michael
Zigarelli
ep·i·dem·ic
(ĕp-ĭ-dĕm´-ĭk) n. An outbreak of a contagious disease that spreads
rapidly and widely.
It’s no overstatement to
say that legions of Christians are infected by “an outbreak of a contagious
disease,” a disease that seems to be spreading “rapidly and wildly” throughout
the culture. It is especially prevalent among U.S. Christians in leadership
positions, but also appears to be widespread among a similar demographic
overseas. Moreover, women are more susceptible than are men, though a strikingly
high percentage of both genders have been affected.
A contemporary term for
the disease is “busyness” and the particular strand I want to consider here
entails a lifestyle that’s so congested that the infected individual can neither
enjoy nor nurture a healthy relationship with God. The evidence comes from the
latest in a long line of studies on over-extended lifestyles, but there’s also
some good news to report: There’s a cure that’s freely available to each one of
us.
Given the target audience
for this article, I’ll get right to the point.
A Congested Life is an
Obstacle to Leading God’s Way
Let me start with a three
paragraph theology of the problem. If we take scripture at face value, Christians
in positions of authority are to lead in a way that honors God. Indeed, this
isn’t a very controversial statement since we’re to do everything in life this
way, but if you want a poignant reminder, check out Jesus’ words on leadership
in Matthew
20:26-28.
To do God’s will as
leaders—and to do it with excellence and consistency—requires that we not go at
it alone. We must rely on God to do what is unattainable in our own strength.
Again, the Bible is unequivocal. Classic passages like Proverbs 3:5 (“Trust in
the Lord with all of your heart and lean not on our own understanding”) and
Matthew 6:33 (“Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all
these things will be added unto you”) resonate throughout the ages and remain as
time-honored answers to the question “how we should live?” They are bedrock, not
proof-texts, since they capture so completely the core tenets of surrender,
dependence and divine empowerment.
It follows, then, that
obstacles to our relationship with God are also obstacles to leading God’s way.
Such is the case with the epidemic of busyness. A lifestyle that crowds out God
culminates in the self-sufficient practice of leadership. And this is not just
an exegetical warning. It has become an undeniable reality of the Christian
landscape. Let’s consider the evidence.
The Evidence That Christian
Leaders Are Over-Extended
To examine the extent of
the busyness problem, I collected data from Christians around the world through
my Web site, www.Assess-Yourself.org.
At that site, people complete surveys to examine their spiritual condition and
they do so anonymously (thereby facilitating their candor and permitting the
collection of more valid data). For this study, I consider data from the first
752 Christians leaders who completed my “Obstacles to Growth Survey.”1
Figure 1 presents what
might be the most striking finding in these data. To the statement “The busyness
of my life gets in the way of developing my relationship with God,” three out of
four Christian leaders indicated that this is “often” or “almost always” true of
them. Looking more closely at the data, I also found that female leaders report
even more of a challenge in this area than do their male counterparts. This is
also true for Christian leaders in the United States relative to their peers
overseas (see Table 1). Moreover, this is not simply a businessperson
phenomenon. When I separated out the 116 respondents who identified themselves
as a “pastor,” “minister” or “priest,” I found that they were anything but
exempt from this problem. Almost two out of three clergy members (64%) report
that the busyness of their life “often” or “almost always” gets in the way of
developing their relationship with God.
Other survey questions
reveal even more about the toxic lifestyle of Christian leaders. As shown in
Table 2, one-third of leaders say they “often” or “almost always” hurry when
they do not need to hurry; half say they “often” or “almost always” rush from
task to task and that they eat quickly; and six out of ten report that they are
“often” or “almost always” exhausted by the end of their day.
This is quicksand for
those of us who desire to love God, to love neighbor, and to teach others to do
the same. The epidemic of busyness is inhibiting relationship with God among
those who are in the best positions to be ambassadors of the faith. And
tragically, as we Christian leaders sink further into that sand, those who
advance competing worldviews are marching ahead.
Of course, hamstrung
leadership is only one manifestation of our busyness problem. Being too busy for
God also hinders one’s ability to be a God-honoring spouse, parent, son,
daughter, grandparent, friend, neighbor, church member, volunteer, and so on. An
over-extended life leads to less God in one’s life, culminating in a less
consistent witness—less love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity,
faithfulness, gentleness, self-control and other virtues—as a leader and simply
as a Christian.
Clearly, this needs to
change. God does not call us to a life of hurry, fatigue and distraction from
Him. He calls us to relationship. So to remedy our problem, God has put a
self-administered antidote into our hands.
An Antidote for Our
Busyness
I would guess that almost
every over-extended Christian reading this article knows about this supernatural
antidote: God permits us to choose to live differently. For most people,
over-extension is purely a lifestyle choice and as such, the solution is to make
a different choice. Do less. Live more simply. Stop taking on so many things and
discontinue the relentless pursuit of “more.”
Now, as a father of four
kids under ten years old, I do understand that there are some seasons of life
that are naturally more frenetic than others. For some people, the
hyper-activity of these occasional seasons is due to circumstances beyond their
control. But for most seasons, we determine crowdedness of our lives. And in
doing so, we choose the extent to which we make space for our relationship with
God.
Consequently, for those of
us who claim to be believers, there’s no escaping the question: Am I too busy
for God? Have I chosen a lifestyle that permits continuous relationship with
God, or one that relegates Him to designated times and places? Is God still my
top priority in life, or have I begun taking Him for granted?
If the answer to any of
those questions is not what it should be, here’s an action item for today: Take
inventory of the complicated lifestyle you’ve selected and what that’s done to
your relationship with God. Do so with the help of a trusted friend, if you can.
And then, with this big picture inventory in front of you…well…do something to
solve the problem. I certainly don’t need to be over-directive here. If there’s
not enough God in your life, you know what to do about that.
And so do I. But let me
offer just one suggestion that’s universally applicable. It may be axiomatic
advice, but from my studies of Christian leaders, it’s advice that needs to be
underscored: A one time commitment to change will not inoculate you. It’s an
essential beginning, of course, but it’s unlikely to alter the trajectory of
your relationship with God. Permanent change requires both a genuine commitment
today and a continuing re-commitment—maybe even a daily re-commitment—to
avoid drifting back to a life of ignoring God.
I know from where I speak,
not just because of my research, but also because a strange thing happened as I
immersed myself in the research and writing of this article. In the several days
I invested in this piece, I made noticeably less time than usual for God.
Indeed, busyness is a
powerful and persistent epidemic. Even in the midst of teaching against it we
are not immune!
Figure 1
“The busyness of my life gets
in the way of developing my relationship with God.”
(Survey of 752 Christian
leaders)

Table 1: Summary of Findings
for the Item:
“The busyness of my life gets
in the way of developing my relationship with God”
|
Sample |
n |
Almost always |
Often |
Sometimes |
Rarely or never |
|
Full sample |
752 |
39% |
36% |
11% |
14% |
|
Women |
450 |
43% |
33% |
9% |
15% |
|
Men |
294 |
34% |
39% |
14% |
13% |
|
US sample |
570 |
41% |
37% |
10% |
12% |
|
Non-US sample |
175 |
34% |
33% |
15% |
18% |
|
Pastors |
116 |
29% |
35% |
10% |
26% |
Table
2: More Evidence of the Epidemic of Busyness among Christian Leaders
|
Survey Item |
Percentage of
Christian leaders who report that this is “often” or “almost
always” true of them |
|
When I do not
need to hurry, I tend to hurry anyway |
33% |
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I rush from task to
task |
50% |
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I eat quickly |
52% |
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I am exhausted at the
end of my day |
59% |
Notes
1. I identified
respondents as “leaders” if they indicated having at least one direct report in
their position at work. I identified respondents as “Christians” through
questions about their denominational affiliation and the number of years they
have been Christian. Other demographics of the sample are as follows. Gender:
women represent 60% of the sample. Respondents’ average age: 40. Average years
as a Christian: 21. Race: 67% White, 19% Black, 7% Hispanic, 4% Asian, 3% other.
Denomination: Respondents represent 36 Christian denominations, with 33%
reporting being “non-denominational.” Geographic: Respondents come from 45
states and 47 countries, with 25% residing outside the United States.
Michael Zigarelli is
an Associate Professor of Management at Messiah College and the
editor of Christianity9to5.net
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