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Should You
Leave Your Job for Full-Time Ministry?
Tom R. Harper
From: Career
Crossover (B&H Publishing, 2007)
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Editor's Note:
The findings in this article, excerpted from the book
Career Crossover, are based on a study of 344 “crossover
leaders”—church leaders who once worked in the secular marketplace
but then crossed over to full-time ministry work in the church.
The one who
works his land will have plenty of food,
but whoever chases fantasies lacks sense.
Proverbs 12:11
There is a
corporate ladder in the ministry world. Many crossover leaders try
to climb it, seeking the same fame and monetary gain they chased in
the marketplace. If they become senior pastor of a growing church,
the headiness of speaking to hundreds or thousands of devotees from
the pulpit every week and seeing a swelling budget can make humility
difficult. They’re finally CEO of their church. This may be their
closest brush with being the big cheese.
Why do you
want to enter the ministry?
Why in the world would you leave your current life and career to
serve ungrateful sheep, face financial difficulty, suffer biting
criticism, and endure long hours and short vacations?
Of course, I
could’ve asked the same question of a minister thinking about
secular work. And that’s my point: the two worlds are more alike
than you think. It seems that on either side of the fence, the
greener grass loses its luster the longer you stand on it. Picture
yourself several years into your ministry, on one of your worst days
when a deacon openly undermines your leadership, and see if you
still love your job. I’m sure you’ve had plenty of similar days no
matter where you work.
Good reasons
abound for entering the ministry. But you’ll want to figure out
your reasons first; don’t assume you heard a call today then
blindly jump tomorrow. Our respondents suggested ten bad
reasons to leave life in the marketplace:
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You’re
discouraged and burned-out in your current job.
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You want
to feel good about your work.
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You feel
the need to please someone else (family, friends, etc.).
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You dream
of “changing the world.”
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You failed
at other jobs and want to try something new.
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You want a
“career” in the church.
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You’re low
on funds and think church work would be easy money for awhile.
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You think
ministry seems like the most fun job out of several you’re
considering.
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You want
to try your hand at full-time ministry to see if you like it.
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You see an
open church position that has better hours, benefits, or salary
than your current position.
Do these
questions induce a nod or two? If so, your calling may originate
more from yourself than the Lord.
What Season
Are You In?
If you feel
led to leave the hotbed of spiritual outreach—the marketplace—our
survey respondents want to catch you for a word or two before you
leave.
Jesus himself
worked in the family carpentry business. Many of his teachings were
parables that resonated with business people and the entire working
class. Two thousand years ago, the average adult life revolved
around work and business transactions—no different from today.
Our Lord
worked longer in business than he did in full-time ministry. This
was no accident. He easily identified with those in the marketplace
and with secular workers through the ages. He not only crossed over,
he spun business into deeply significant lessons and illustrations.
God placed you
in your current career because it is a season of your life that has
a beginning and an end ordained by him. A preacher friend of mine,
Dan Hall, delivered a sermon recently on God’s perfect timing. He
pondered why Jesus appeared on the earth in that exact moment in
history. Why didn’t he come earlier, before the Egyptian
enslavement? Or later, right before the fall of Jerusalem?
We can’t guess at God’s reasons for his timing. But he has ordained
a place in time for everything, especially his Son’s birth: “While
they were there, the time came for her [Mary] to give birth.
Then she gave birth to her firstborn Son” (Luke 2:6–7, my emphasis).
In
Ecclesiastes 3:1, Solomon writes, “There is an occasion for
everything, and a time for every activity under heaven.” Is a season
about to end—or begin—in your life? Or is the time not yet ripe for
any changes?
If we would
only trust that the Lord brought us into our current season for a
limited time to learn specific lessons, to grow in our walk, to
serve certain people, then we would enjoy the moment. We can have
faith that our Father in heaven will carry us into the next chapter
of our lives at just the right time.
One crossover
leader made this point well: “Be faithful with what God has
put in front of you before you consider being faithful with what you
want God to put in front of you. If you aren’t salt and light
now, don’t assume you will be salt and light in vocational ministry
either.”
Bloom where
you’re planted, says the adage. Extend your roots deep into the dirt
under your feet. Practice ministering in a familiar environment.
Witness to people you know…
A Story of
Workplace Witnessing
When I sold
advertising for a rock radio station in the mid-nineties, I formed a
quick friendship with a new ad rep a few cubicles down from mine. He
overflowed with positive energy and laid several hints that he might
be a Christian. I was a relatively new believer myself, so this
excited me.
We started
doing lunch. I found out he was a Jehovah’s Witness. I panicked.
I soon became a target for his smooth words and sound arguments
against what I knew to be true. But I also started reading about how
to counter his tactics. We had some healthy debates. I hungered for
further equipping. Finally I enrolled in a seminary class on
witnessing to the cults.
As a grad
student I was assigned an end-of-term paper on any topic within the
scope of the class. I spent an evening of indecision about my theme.
The next day, God sent two young Witnesses literally to my doorstep,
and my paper turned into an account of the ensuing conversations
with my new Jehovah’s Witness friends.
My growing
passion for apologetics and the cults started with a workplace
relationship. God used my friend to give me depth and awaken a
hunger for learning. In the end that coworker indirectly equipped me
to break more effectively through the deceptions of cults.
If you leave
your secular career, what opportunities will you squander that God
meant only for you? Are there people around you at work right now
who need to hear the gospel? Does God want you to walk away from the
ministry he’s developing for you on the job? Maybe he wants you to
ask him right now, before you go any further with your dream.
A Crossover
Example
Bob
Buford: From Media Mogul to Social Entrepreneur
Bob Buford
brought the concept of halftime into sharp focus for a
multitude of men and women facing midlife searches for purpose. His
book Halftime delves into the mind of the middle-aged
achiever who wants to make a mark—not just money—in this world.
Bob’s recent
work, Finishing Well, puts retirement into perspective. He
interviewed 120 accomplished people, most of whom scoffed at the
mention of retirement. Though in the world’s eyes they deserved to
slow down and relax a little, they couldn’t stop serving others with
their God-given talents and passions as long as they were able.
Bob’s own
journey is a little different from most you’ll read in this book. I
found his second-half work intriguing—author, speaker, head of
Leadership Network (which connects innovators within the world of
large churches), life coach, and participant in numerous boards and
other distinguished groups. Like him, I feel God has given me
certain skills and a personality that don’t fit the pastor or
church-staff mold. I feel drawn toward organizational and creative
work rather than preaching or teaching. I would love to go on a
mission trip or help a bold pastor plant a church, but full-time
leadership in a local church doesn’t seem to be the Lord’s vision
for me.
When I
interviewed him, I was struck by Bob’s obvious heart for people
trying to discern the next chapter in their lives. I posed an
objection to him that I’d heard from other respected and well-known
leaders: “What do you think about those who say we shouldn’t
necessarily look for significance outside of our job, but instead
seek ways to minister to those around us in our current careers? In
other words, do you agree that God gives us certain spheres of
influence he wants us to reach without leaving the marketplace?”
“It’s utterly
a matter of calling,” he said. I’ll let him explain.
Should You
Stay . . . or Go?
During his
last eight years as CEO of Buford Television, Bob worked on
transitioning into his own halftime until he sold the family-owned
national cable company in 1999. When he wrote Halftime, he
was still four years away from leaving the marketplace to become a
social entrepreneur.
“When I came to halftime,” he says, “I wanted to re-allocate 80
percent of myself to kingdom things. A lot of the people I see who
make a crossover do it the way I did—through a parallel career. What
you do is begin what I call ‘low-cost probes,’ where you try some
things out and you see whether they work for you.”
While we
should take our time finding the right fit, we shouldn’t “endlessly
stew” about our direction, he says. Some people fantasize that some
day their ticket will arrive, and they can finally realize their
dreams of serving others and following God’s will for their lives.
But too often the daydream passes because they can’t pry themselves
away from life’s busyness—jobs, young kids, bills, and an addiction
to the pursuit of success.
“In my case, I
had a very measured course,” Bob says. “It took maybe eight years to
get most of me transferred into a ministry.”
After he
started Leadership Network, he remained chairman of his company’s
board. He crafted an abbreviated role for himself, focusing mostly
on the company’s mission and values. He came into the office once or
twice a month…
A Matter of
Calling
Now back to
the question: if God directs our paths (Proverbs 3:6), why should we
take it upon ourselves to leave our jobs and go into ministry?
Bob believes
Jesus ministered to people in his own path: the woman at the well,
Zacchaeus in the tree, Martha and Mary. “I think you can fully do
that [minister where you are] in business. You can do pastoral care
all day long with just the customers and coworkers and other
people.”
But, he says,
you can’t plant churches while you’re also a CEO. You can’t be
committed to both your job and what you believe is your calling
unless one of them takes a backseat while you focus on the other.
“Peter Drucker once asked me how much I was involved
in my business and how much I was involved in ministry. I said it
was probably fifty-fifty. And he said, ‘That’s just wrong. You
either need to be involved 80 percent in your business or 20 percent
in your business.’ By that he meant if you’re in charge, you need to
be guiding things in a very active way—involved, not distant. But
the worst [thing] is to just say you’ve delegated that
responsibility and in fact you cling to it. You don’t give enough of
yourself to really do it well and you don’t give [less] of yourself
to let someone else do it well.”
Bob predicts
an increasing number of leaders will move from the marketplace to
full-time ministry. “The two trends that I see mostly are planting
new churches, which usually involves marketplace people, and
starting multi-venue churches, where a home church has satellite
locations. Life Covenant Church in Edmond, Oklahoma, had five
hundred people attending eight years ago in one location. About
three years ago, they had seven thousand people attending at five
locations, and they now have eleven thousand people at even more
sites. At the time they had the seven thousand people attending,
they had seventy-two full-time staff, seventy-one of whom had a
marketplace background.”
Whether we
minister in the marketplace or enter full-time ministry, Bob
emphatically believes God’s personal call on our lives determines
our individual paths. But, he says, “either one of those callings is
equally valid.”
The Call
Still Comes
Bob Buford’s
story supports a fact shown by our research: though a huge number of
Christians minister where they work, thousands will leap into
full-time ministry each year. The call to cross over obviously
compels many to uproot and commit to a new life.
God’s plan for
each person is unique and so specific that only you can
discern what’s right for you. Listen to God, pray, read the Word,
seek wise counsel, talk to your pastor, and include your family in
your decision. Don’t rely on your gut or your emotions to decide.
Intuition should only get your thinking started.
Many ministry
leaders said that all their skills, experiences, failures,
successes, relationships, and lessons equipped them perfectly for
their specific ministry mission.
One respondent’s skill set transferred almost entirely intact: “As a
lawyer, my job was to read, study, gather evidence, persuade,
challenge, and defend. I do that all the time as a pastor. As a
lawyer, I spent my life mediating and seeking to resolve conflict. I
have used those skills hugely in the church—almost daily.”
Let’s close
with an important, practical step toward understanding if you and
the ministry really fit.
How to Test
the Ministry Waters to See If They Part for You
I like how one
respondent sums up this important decision: “If you can continue
working in your current business career and feel at peace with God
about it, then don’t quit! God can certainly use you right where you
are. God needs faithful business people to ‘shine a light’ in a
world that is often dark.”
If you
currently have a job that pays the bills—even if your dream is very
different—you are in a safe place. Be thankful God has put you in a
job that provides for your basic needs. If your immediate task is to
find a new job so you can more adequately cover life’s expenses, my
advice is to focus on securing your work before exploring your
dream. You can always leave a job when you’re called to move on.
Our crossovers recommend that you to dip your toe in the water
first. It is not always wise to dive into the first pool you happen
upon, nor prudent to jump in without knowing how to swim.
Churches need
people like you. Simply asking how you can help can set you on the
path toward your future ministry with incredible speed and
precision. If you already volunteer at your church, it might be time
to increase your involvement to get a taste of more intense service
and full-time work.
Here are a few
ideas to get you started as you sit down with your pastor, elders,
or other volunteers:
-
greet
visitors
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serve
communion
-
visit the
sick in hospitals
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serve in
the nursery
-
teach
Sunday school
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work with
youth
-
assist
your pastor with sermon research
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lead
short-term mission trips
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become a
deacon or elder
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volunteer
as an assistant or associate pastor
Don’t rush in.
Try out different areas. Give time for God to grow you as you serve.
Think “parallel career.” And then start working on your plan.
Excerpted from
Career Crossover: Leaving the Marketplace for Ministry by
Tom R. Harper (B&H Publishing Group, 2007). Used by permission. All
rights reserved
Tom R. Harper
is founding publisher and ATMmarketplace.com, president of NetWorld
Alliance, and co-founder of Church Central Associates, focusing on
church consultant training and church health resources. He lives
with his wife and two children in Louisville, Kentucky.
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